{"id":539,"date":"2024-11-29T15:56:23","date_gmt":"2024-11-29T15:56:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fiveminutefix.blog\/?p=539"},"modified":"2026-04-21T11:43:39","modified_gmt":"2026-04-21T11:43:39","slug":"evening-gratitude-meditation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fiveminutefix.blog\/index.php\/2024\/11\/29\/evening-gratitude-meditation\/","title":{"rendered":"Evening gratitude meditation"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8220;Write three &#8216;grateful for\u2026&#8217; sentences as your pre-sleep routine.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8220;Lie down. Close your eyes. Breathe deep. Think about the day\u2019s best moments.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8220;Thinking about three things from the day makes you visualise them. Most of our day-dreaming is replaying current concerns (Klinger, 1981). Visualising unresolved problems before sleep keeps your brain in &#8216;fight or flight&#8217; mode.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8220;Visualise the day\u2019s highlights. Just lay and think about today&#8217;s good stuff.&#8221;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Could be a good lullaby. Cause normally have to listen to hard core true crime to override worry. Once woke up shocked by a dream in which I was dismembering a body. But hard true crime effectively puts stop to doom-scrolling through my mental existential disaster feed.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Looked into Eric Klinger. The dude came up with the term &#8216;day-dreaming&#8217; and &#8216;current concerns&#8217;. They overlap. So, by default, we worry. You lay, you wait for sleep, you&#8217;re concerned, you invite worry, worry digs in, worry is stuck in the loop, and that&#8217;s the stuff you carry into sleep. At night the brain doesn&#8217;t power off. Heard even two pages of prose read pre-sleep change the frame of mind, you wake up rejuvenated, instead of wasted.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, yea, gratitude beats worry. Makes sense. Gotta start a pre-sleep gratitude ritual. Keep true crime down a little. Scroll through the good parts of your day instead.&nbsp; Skip pre-sleep worry. Brain will get the message: off-duty now for current concerns. Set the tone for worry-free sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>&#8220;Think about moments. What was the best part of your day?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Went to bed. 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